I also believe 2.0 hardware will not be available as a retrofit and I am ok with that. Our 1.0 hardware can see other cars and motorcycles. As the software improves in quality, so will our lane-keeping and TACC experience.
What the two accidents involving not braking in time have in common is that the driver was not suitably overseeing the operation. Our job as driver is to take over WELL BEFORE the last possible moment to stop. Remember that a really rapid deceleration can lead to the car behind us hitting our tail end on a rapid deceleration. Thus, our job is to take over any time we feel uncomfortable with the situation. I have never personally allowed autopilot or TACC to brake really heavily to stop the vehicle in a questionable situation. I have always taken over earlier, when I saw a questionable situation developing.
In the case of the TACC accident with the van extending well into the lane, the driver needed to quickly determine whether he was going to stop or whether traffic allowed a swerve into the other lane, as the traffic ahead had done. Delaying that decision was the cause of the accident, not TACC's being placed in an ambiguous situation. TACC really didn't know the driver's plan and slamming on the brakes too early would have been problematic if the driver had the clearance to enter the other lane and pass clear of the van and planned to do so. I suspect that if the Tesla was operating under full autopilot, it would have stopped in time for the van, because there would be no ambiguity in that situation about whether the Tesla driver planned to enter the other lane, as the car ahead had done.
In the case of the driver who accidentally stepped on the brake (according to Tesla) and thereby disabled autopilot, this is again a case of the driver waiting too long before recognizing things were looking bad and beginning the heavy braking. With this accident, though, the loudness of the autopilot disengage sound could well have been a factor, but even if there was no disengage sound, the driver should have initiated braking well before there was questionable distance to stop.
Tesla says that even at this early stage of autopilot development, the number of collisions that result in airbag deployment is half the average for drivers driving without autopilot. That safety benefit will only grow as autopilot evolves. In the meantime, while autopilot is still a work in progress, use the reduced workload of not having to work so hard on lane-keeping and holding a specific speed to put more attention than in manual driving into anticipating problems ahead. You are still in charge all the time, but you have some great tools to relieve the workload so that you can concentrate on the important stuff, like questionable traffic situations and questionable highway markings.