So the only way I can make it work they way I want with no way to turn off heat is by manually turn the AC off and putting the temp to LO in the morning, and after 5 minutes change the temp back to 72 and turn the AC on. Gets to be lot of button pushes every morning
I know exactly what you mean! There is another solution that works easier and no button pushing at all.
First, keep the HVAC to all auto. Set up your right thumb scroll wheel (on the steering wheel) to adjust the temperature setting. When you get in the car parked underground and cold, adjust the temperature down. For this idea to work, you have to completely ignore that this number is temperature. Disconnect the number you see from it's intended meaning and just see it as an arbitrary number. So you get in the car and adjust the number down. If the car starts heating and you feel warm air coming out, adjust the number further down. Again, ignore what exactly the number is, just adjust it down 2 or 3 clicks from what it was. If it comes out too cold, adjust it up a little. A good indicator is also the fan speed. If the fan is blowing strong, adjust the number up (or down) to where the fan slows down. This way you know the car will neither use the heater nor AC much (or at all). Once you drive outside into the sun and the car warms up, adjust the number (probably down) so it feels comfortable.
Basically what you are doing is you adjust the entire HVAC system with a single dial to match whatever the cabin's state is and thus prevent it from using unnecessary energy. It only works if in your head you do not see it as an actual temperature. Once you see the 'temperature' setting as just a number and any adjustment is only a relative adjustment to make it comfortable, then you don't have to go through all the buttons and adjust all aspects by hand all the time.
I think that is actually the root of most issues people have with climate control systems. They are fixated on a specific temperature that they believe is comfortable. There are so many other factors that play into what makes you feel warm or cold at the exact same air temperature. If people could just let go of that fixed number they believe in.
Here are a few things that make me feel warmer even though the temperature has not changed: drinking coffee, a guy cutting my off, being late to an appointment while driving, right after I had Mexican food, a phone call with my wife.
Here are a few things that make me feel cooler at the same temperature: being tired, wearing flip flops, wearing shorts, after eating ice cream, on long rides, driving at night, after seeing my bank statement.