Try these:
mykeln/teslaprep
http://www.teslachecklists.com/model-3-delivery-checklist/
Not sure it makes a difference where you have delivery in terms of being able to reject. My car is scheduled for home delivery as well and most on the forum suggest switching to service center but then someone has to drive me there and if it is late and car is on the parking lot, light will not be as good as in my garage.
Thank you. You reminded me to change delivery time to an earlier time too. Currently it's scheduled after 6PM, too dark to spot any paint issues.