I'm an electrician, but that doesn't mean I'm a nema 14-50 authority. I installed the $8 dollar Home Depot 14-50 in my garage last week. It seemed to be of good enough quality. The outlet in your picture looks to be of really low quality. It looks to me like you have a loose wire or that the prongs aren't making very good contact inside the outlet.
Yeah mine seems pretty good too, and I could replace it at least 10 times over before breaking even with the Hubbell. If insertion force is the test, then mine is holding up just fine.