bonnie
I play a nice person on twitter.
I agree Tesla's communications haven't been the best, and I understand why some people are unhappy. But on the positive side:
There are happy stories as well. For example, I locked in my sig at the last possible moment, and my MVPA said October, but I got my car in September. Stories like that just don't get the same amount of discussion.
The car is awesome. As others have noted, the problems fade to the background once you get the car.
When calculating the "Sig premium", remember that it includes discounts for people that owned Roadsters before a certain point. My sig S cost slightly less than the production S my wife would have wanted (even though it would have had fewer options). I think this let them give a small reward to loyal early adopters (and get fully-loaded cars quickly in to the hands of people with a demonstrated ability to show them off) while at the same time charging a time-based versioning premium for latecomers that wanted to jump the queue and get a car fast. Not a perfect plan...but overall, really pretty good.
Not only is Tesla starting a brand-new car company--an almost impossible task by itself--they are building a type of car that nobody else is even trying to build. And they are including dedicated infrastructure. If they fail, I can't see who's going to step in and take over. I'm not saying we should ignore their mistakes; I agree that can be a disservice in the long run as well, and we are spending a lot of money so we should expect a certain amount of service no matter what. I'm just saying that we should be flexible where we can, make sure our comments are aimed at helping them improve, and work together to see how we can help each other as well as Tesla. (Most posters are doing that already; I'm just reinforcing the idea).
Amen. To everything you said.