but for me It is less about being bumped in line, and more about being promised to be bumped in line and then ignored.
This is at least half the point. Whatever you think about whether it's "fair" to give owners priority, Tesla promised this as an enticement to purchase a Model S/X. They need to deliver on that promise.
It really bugs me that that guy in the reservations department who called me (after I submitted an executive escalation) assured me that my name was "on the list" and that when they did the next batch update I would be given owner priority. They are either unscrupulous or incompetent when it comes to things like this.
I'm still waiting on a response to my attempt to re-open my escalation. Complete radio silence so far since Thursday.