Are the people on this thread who think we are 'hammering' Tesla too hard for merely asking them to deliver a specific feature that they marketed to us when we placed orders, also people who have actually placed P85D orders? Or just folks sitting on the sidelines?
Seeing as you quoted the word I used in my post, I'll answer:
I don't have a P85D. I bought a S85 19+ months ago. It didn't meet my expectations in a couple of significant ways, including one feature (fog lights) for which I felt there was an expectation communicated by Tesla that I felt strongly about.
I penned a constructive open letter to Elon/Tesla asking them to hear my concerns, and offering a couple of suggestions for remediation I felt would be acceptable. I posted it here & at telsamotors.com, asking other owners who were in the same situation to voice support if they cared to do so. A significant number did.
I got a positive response back from Elon outlining a plan to address the concern, and he even solicited feedback to see if it might be acceptable. It still involved waiting, but in the end we secured a retroactive installation of a superior item (redesigned Gen 2 fog lights) for all affected.
Now with 10K+ cars a month being shipped, I suspect the days of direct responses from Elon may be harder to come by... but I have had other dialog with ownership, the supercharger team, and folks from the service center that make it clear that corporate HQ is watching.
Try sugar before vinegar. I'd like to encourage more open dialog from Tesla, not less... Yes, help them to recognize there's missed expectation from some of their communication... but give them some time to respond and try and make it right.
And be sure to be just as vocal about the positive "unexpected" items (upgraded top speed... better torque curve for higher RPM acceleration, free internet access for 4 years, upgraded warranty, etc...) you get as you are about the negatives...