anticitizen13.7
Not posting at TMC after 9/17/2018
Low EQ people don't tend to behave well under stress, and Elon seems to be capable of dealing with some pretty intense stress.
Elon is all head and little heart. He approaches everything as a Physics problem, which is fantastic for his work life, but it doesn't work for his personal life. In Ashley Vance's biography there was something in there that Elon set about learning how to relate to people because he realized that to see his vision in the real world, he was going to have to manage people to work for him. But he just barely met minimum spec there.
From what I can remember of the Vance biography on Musk, Elon had significantly more trouble relating to people as a child/young adult than Kimbal, his easygoing and charming brother.
I don't know that Elon doesn't have much heart though. There was a 60 Minutes interview a few years ago, and Elon became very emotional when the subject of former Astronauts criticizing private space ventures was brought up. He really looked up to those guys and they were saying some really awful stuff to Congress about SpaceX and others compromising safety.
A psycho like me would have brushed it off.
Tesla and SpaceX are both very tough places to work and Elon is famous for being unsympathetic, though he's also famous for removing obstacles from people's way too
If what the Vance bio conveyed was accurate, saying to Elon "We can't do X" could get one fired. "We can't do X under present conditions, but if we have A, B, and C, we can get it done" on the other hand would likely get Elon to put A, B, and C into place. I think this is probably the most important thing for any new Tesla or SpaceX employee to know before working at either company. Limited thinking isn't tolerated, but independent problem solving is rewarded.
As a mate Elon is absent most of the time and when he is around, he's likely quite the hard task master (it's unlikely he shuts that part of himself off when he leaves the office). He also has some semi-eugenics ideas that smart people should have as many children as possible and any mate is seen as a potential brood mare for more children. That may have been one of the tensions between him and Telulah, she probably didn't want children any time soon because of her career and he may have been pressuring for more children. We'll probably never know for sure though, both are fairly quiet about the details of why they split, though I believe she has said she had problems with the loneliness.
Weird. I didn't know this. That actually creeps me out slightly, like the Zerg aliens from StarCraft, which replicate and evolve rapidly. "Spawn more Overlords".