Nice post. What would "convince" me is if we had a measurement of how much power is actually being drawn from the grid. I say this because, my MS when fully charged, on 120 v, shows 1 amp of draw when I warm the cabin using my iPhone app with the plug light flashing green. As you know, 120 V can do 12 AMPS when charging. The kWh requirement in general is around 6 kWh to heat the car. So, in my situation, the amperage should be 12 amps and not 1 amp.
The only caveat is that I am running 4.2 and not 4.3. I hope 4.3 uses shore power to preheat the cabin. In my case, that would be 12 amps at the plug, not 1 amp.