I rerwote ownership to ask them to ensure they have accurate data, and indeed the original email I got from them was INCORRECT, and the currently stated 175 Nm/129 lbft is CORRECT for BOTH wheels.
Sorry for any confusion introduced into the forum -- I think in the end, it was worth making sure Tesla ownership has updated and uniform communications for this safety-critical information.
Here's the quote from ownership:
Thank you for your follow-up. I conferred with our service teams in the field and they did confirm that the correct torque specification for the vehicle is 175Nm or 129lb/ft of torque for both wheels. All service centers in the field have been following this protocol, but our internal database was not reflecting this correctly. I apologize for the confusion, I will update our database to ensure that the correct data is reflected for all communications in the future.