it would be interesting if paramus was fully operational by the time you get your wheels - "two weeks"
in all seriousness, until your EDD settles down to about 2 weeks, you'll just be checking like the rest of us, and getting disappointed like the rest of us.
once you get down to 2 weeks, and start to hit your EDD window, you should be ripe for a VIN.
I was told by a couple of SA's (i call the springfield location) that Fremont CAN ship to NJ in only 6 days, but more realistically 2 weeks. (I didn't think it was possible to get to NJ in less than 2 weeks unless by truck, but per the knowledgeable SA that i actually believe and trust, I was told that NJ is on a train route that could do it in 6 days. could be as quick as that - SC gets the car, reviews, and delivers the same day, which COULD be as quick as 6 days from Fremont, but again, not likely.
right now I have my VIN since last night (yippie) and a 6 day window; i expect to get a text later today or tomorrow to schedule. I went through this in December, and then my car (and apparently several other folks' cars) were never built.