You're right, but I think a lot of us have a foot in both camps. We want to see Tesla succeed, and we want to be along for the ride. But we don't want to give up the more basic capabilities that we have had in more mainstream models. If these two were mutually exclusive, I could see it, but they are not. It would be easy for Tesla to give us basic "dumb" cruise control while they are perfecting their more advanced version of it.Tesla is doing things differently than other car manufacturers. Their approach is totally unique, using neural nets and deep learning with surround cameras that can see in all directions around the car. Most every other manufacturer uses basic radar, or lidar, or a combination of a camera or two plus those other sensors for their TACC.
We bought into the technology with Tesla, with the knowledge that Tesla is on the cutting edge and trying new things. So be patient and work with the company to help them reduce it. If you wanted a "dumb cruise control" system, or basic TACC that most other manufacturers have, I recommend buying one of those cars and waiting until you read that Tesla has solved the problems that are bothering you.
And even when TACC is perfect, there will be times when basic cruise control will be preferred by some drivers. There are driving situations where even a perfectly implemented TACC is not as useful as "dumb" cruise control.