My experience as well. Supercharging (with the Nav Dest. set) and starting @40% SoC, I was pulling only 36kW till 60% SoC when the charge rate started to dip. Charged to 90%, drove home, car parked in the garage for hours and the pump is still running. The temp outside is 50F. The car is plugged in but the pump is running off the main battery (4 miles range loss already). I think with 2019.40.2.3 the charging profile is getting worse for us for sure.
Tesla does not care about the longevity of the pumps. That is the owners' problem to deal with. It's the battery replacement under warranty that they are doing their best to avoid. Whatever it takes to avoid facing the warranty issues. Caring about positive user experience/convenience is not even considered.
Sad to say it folks, but the dream was definitely short lived.
My pump is still running with range loss of, what it looks like, one mile per hour while car is garaged and plugged in. What a mess.