Yes, I can empathise, as I also do not want to sound like tall poppy.
However, another reason for me not to talk to some people about it is because I was initially approached by some friends feigning interest, but then engaging in a lengthy discussion that revealed that they were not only anti EV, but did not believe in climate change.
In one instance, climate change denial came bundled with the entire package - homophobia, racism, nationalism, islamophobia... the lot.
I have decided to keep quiet about my Tesla until I can drive it. I then will only talk to those people about it who are interested in it - I suspect it will be mostly younger people.
I will not waste my time on people who are programmed (by the Murdoch press or otherwise) to hate EVs.