I went on a 90 mile trip yes
There's no way to jump the queue AFAIK. Tesla release their updates in batches. Although not perfect,
this site shows that people are still getting 28.2 as of today so it looks like 36.2 is not on wide release yet.
Also, if it still works the way it did 2-3 years ago then people with FSD are prioritised first. Often my boss will get an update on his Model S Raven 2 weeks before I get it on my Model 3 LR.
I would say relax and be patient - by the time you get it it will probably have a few bug fixes anyway. I'm really looking forward to the new Energy app but I have heard horror stories about AP from this thread and others, so I am in no rush to get it myself!