Took delivery yesterday! Found out that even if they do everything on their end you can't hit "accept delivery" until 30 minutes before the scheduled time (we got there an hour early, because the bank and lunch didn't take as long as expected). And looks like HW3 which I was expecting. The lady at the service center was very nice and we got to poke over everything inside and out before hitting accept.
Just a couple really minor tiny paint scratches but honestly I'm not worrying about them--I have a seven year old and he'll probably run into it with his bike or something soon anyway, or I'll hit it with my computer bag in the parking lot, and a few days of commuting across interstate construction will do the rest. The trunk and frunk are maybe about .050 offset to the side but I don't care.
Had to reboot phone and car once or twice to get the Bluetooth to connect for media but after that all was good. Using the Drive app on watch to get in with the phone stashed away also worked. Charged about 2% at home yesterday just to make sure it worked. TACC is freaky and takes some getting used to; only tried autosteer once and it freaked out when I took my hands off to stretch for a moment.
Biggest outstanding issue right now is getting my wife added as a driver; we're getting the "account incompatibility" error in the app when she goes to accept the invitation
It looks like none of the previous means of getting help for this (chat, phone) is still there so I submitted a support request. We'll see if it works. (edit: I texted the SA and they gave me a direct email address for support--maybe that'll work faster?)
Also got the mini dash display installed for the wife but honestly I'd kinda like to take it back out. It blocks the "blast my face" air conditioning vent. The button for dropping regen seems to work so maybe she'll be ok with that at least...
Now I just need to mod the subtrunk for the spare and I'll be good to go. Also gonna try to make my own RFID fob from an extra keycard so I can keep it on a normal keychain as a backup, instead of in the wallet that I'd like to be able to lock in the car. Sometimes I go to events and such that don't allow electronics... like tomorrow, when I'm heading up to Charleston for the day.