While there's no argument that Tesla have stuffed up the communications, the underlying facts are not unreasonable.
To the extent this is related to fuses, we know that original cars were fitted with a conventional HBC fuse - and those fuses were entirely satisfactory in their original use. Then, in order to get the enhanced performance for the P90DL with adequate reliability it was found that a simple fuse simply couldn't do the job (too little margin between "OK, fuse must remain intact" and "fault condition, fuse must open"), so they designed the electronically-activated fuse. When first introduced, this new fuse would have been expensive and of uncertain long-term reliability, so it made sense to only fit it on the P90DL cars that needed it. Over time, the new fuse's reliability became better trusted and economies of scale and procurement work will have reduced the price so it became reasonable to fit them more widely: probably logistical reasons made it sensible to fit them to all 90 packs fairly early on, and (we now speculate) eventually to all cars. Since the fuse (and the contactors) are part of the battery pack, and battery packs are built separately from the cars with some level of inventory of completed packs, it's not surprising that there isn't a clean VIN-number cut-off for cars having all the right parts.
So, calling it "lucky dip" seems a bit harsh.