If you read the thread on the eMMC failures you will note that version 10 writes to the eMMC for every little change, such as, for example, each time your seat moves from your memory setting to the easy entry setting.
I doubt those settings changes will make any noticeable difference to the life of the eMMC. What is wearing it out is the constant verbose logging anytime the MCU is awake.
The eMMC is a weak point in the car. You can only write to it so many times before it fails, and then you have to replace the whole MCU (unless you know someone who can desolder the old eMMC from the MCU and retrieve the data from it, and then burn a new eMMC that is soldered to the MCU board) at a cost of about $3,000 when the warranty runs out. I for one don’t need to have the eMMC wear out sooner that necessary due to frivolous writings to it.
Just as an FYI it looks like the cost of a MCU replacement has dropped to ~$2k: Musk confirms/Tesla Refutes upgradeability from MCU1 to MCU2 (And that comes with a 4-year unlimited mileage warranty.)