Mendol, Graz3r I finally got a call from Tesla in response to an email I sent. Their response was
The car is coming on the back of at truck, it can arrive any time today - the delivery driver is just that and will not be doing a run through of the vehicle. Once we've received it, we call Tesla on a number thats given and they then remotely walk us through the process.
You will get 30-45mins heads up before the car arrives, they'll call you to make sure you're there.
They have no support staff in Canberra so expect a "here's the car, do you accept it?" and then everything else over the phone.